Have you ever been around someone who complains all the time? They always find something or someone to complain about it due to unmet need or dissatisfaction. Whether you're around the complainer for 5 seconds, 5 minutes or 5 hours you instantaneously feel drained. You feel like you need to recharge to get back into the mood that you were once in before the complainer disrupted your atmosphere.
How do you think God feels when we constantly complain? I'm not talking about asking God for your needs. He is an infinite God with infinite resources and He's waiting for us. But what I'm talking about is the constant need to complain to God when He has equipped you with the necessary tools, but because you want that constant attention, neglect to move forward with those tools. Take the time to evaluate your "requests." Are you simply complaining or asking for God's help?