This is a topic that is well known. That moment when you think you’re important to someone, anyone and then find out that you aren’t. This doesn’t only apply to romantic relationships, this also applies to the friendships. We often place ourselves in friendships and we don’t realize how unimportant we are to the other person. They’ll show you little things here and there, but never big enough for you to consider it a “red flag.” It's ok to distance yourself from those who make you feel like you're hard to love. Examine your friendships. Make sure they aren’t one sided and you are important to them, just as they are important to you.