Vibes. We often talk about the vibes we get from people or a place and how that vibe affects you. You must think about the vibes you put out to those around you. Is your vibe favorable to the people around you? Is your vibe pleasant and attracts people to you? Or is your vibe like a bug repellent pushing people away? Your “vibe” is why you have the friends that you have and is often the reason you can or can’t maintain solid relationships. Pay attention to what you put out and see what you find out. You are never too old to change.